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About to fix up a date?  Hold on – why not watch some of our short dating tips videos before making that first phone call or meeting up?   Click here to visit our Dating Success channel on YouTube and learn about the dating strategies that work.

By the way, why not join us with our free Drawing Down the Moon webinars? The matchmakers and I will be on hand to discuss tried and tested strategies for maximising your chances of meeting that special person.  You can join in and also ask questions you may have.

Message from Drawing Down the Moon MD, Mary Balfour:
It’s one thing finding Mr or Ms Right, it’s quite another to keep them around for ever! Here’s some fascinating reading on the subject of relationships and love:

Mr Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb (Harper Collins 2010)

Why We Love: the Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love by Helen Fisher (Henry Holt and Company, 2005) – also see her TED Talks.

Why We Pick the Mates We Do By Anne Teachworth (The Gestalt Institute Press, 2007)

Superflirt by Tracey Cox (Dorling Kindersley 2003)

Body Language – How to Read Others’ Thoughts by Their Gestures by Allan Pease (Sheldon Press, 1997)

Hot Relationships – how to have one by Tracey Cox (Corgi, 2000)

How to be a People Magnet – Proven Ways to Polish Your People Skills by Leil Lowndes (Thorsons, 2001)

How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes (Thorsons, 1999)

Mars and Venus on a Date – 5 Steps to Success in Love and Romance by John Gray (Vermilion, 1997)

Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps by Allan and Barbara Pease (Orion Books, 2001)

The Art of Happiness: a Handbook for Living by HH Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler (Coronet Books 1998)

The Transformation of Intimacy: Sexuality, Love and Eroticism in Modern Societies by Anthony Giddens (Polity Press, 1992)

Self-Made Man: My Year Disguised as a Man by Norah Vincent (Atlantic Books 2006)

Happy reading! And may it help you on your path to finding that very special someone! Best wishes – Mary Balfour