Any of us can have something that holds us back from taking action, and to minimize its power over us we need to confront it. What, in your present situation, is blocking change – the change from being in a single state to in a relationship?
My man number one was a 6’ 6” (!) alpha male. He positively towered above me. However, by way of practical, manly skills he was utterly hopeless.
An effective smile is used sparingly, on its own, as a statement or to reinforce other messages. Let it suffuse your face after a moment’s reflection in response to something your date has said or done.
Romeo and Juliet, Anthony and Cleopatra, Posh and Becks… and Kiyo and Misha? All classic couples have a story – here are Drawing Down the Moon’s adopted aardvarks!
Kunio Harimoto, who sells Japan’s all-singing, all-dancing latrines around the world, takes loos rather seriously. One of his big innovations — dubbed the “marriage-saver”…
I thought I’d show you pics of the funky cake I made for the wedding of our old friends, David and Annie a while back. They both came to lunch last Sunday and I was reminded of their beautiful wedding ceremony.
Switching on flirtatious feelings Learning to flirt more effectively isn’t just about learning new behaviour. First and foremost, it’s about getting in touch with the golden, feel-good space deep down inside you without which it’s impossible to flirt. This is really useful when you’re feeling… Read more »
To watch a video of me talking about my various careers over many decades and how I finally arrived at being a matchmaker
They very kindly asked me to contribute to their Sound Sculpture feature on Sat 27th March. What was the topic? Well, just for once it wasn’t about top tips for surviving a first date, but burnt toast.
Playing just a little ‘hard to get’ and the ‘thrill of the chase’ can generate amazing erotic electricity. Of course, as with any communication technique…